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Victoria McGarry's avatar

As a teen my dad, older brothers, and my pastor were all intellectual bullies who genuinely believed that it was a God given priority to convince the women in their lives that this type of misogyny was the truth. That bad things follow when women refuse to accept their place in the world.

I had undiagnosed ADHD and anxiety, and it was hard to stand up for myself. They would talk in circles and throw bible verses at me, pretending that it was a fair debate all the while. I didnt know how to refute what they said, but I always knew something about it just didn't sit right. My college educated mom was so intelligent and intellectual and my big sister is still the quickest learner I've ever known. I was hyper emotionally intelligent (and aware/embarrassed of my dad and brothers ineptitude in that regard.) It just rang hollow, so I left that entire community behind as soon as I could.

Back then I would have killed to have someone like you speaking up on my behalf, and it's still so healing to hear those words now. Thank you. Thank you.

EDITED because I want to add that I am halfway to my first college degree and my sister is graduating with her bachelor's this Saturday. :)

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Marion Jamison's avatar

It it so true about elite positions-there are many more capable people to fill them. I feel the same about corporate CEOs. I think their pay packages are outrageous and there are many more capable people to take their place.

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